What are these "various ministries" of the Deacon?
All ordained ministers in the Church are called to functions of Word, Sacrament,and Charity, but bishops, presbyters and deacons exercise these
functions in various ways. As ministers of Word, deacons proclaim the Gospel, preach, and teach in the name of the Church. As ministers of
Sacrament, deacons baptize, lead the faithful in prayer, witness marriages, and conduct wake and funeral services As ministers of Charity, deacons are
leaders in identifying the needs of others, then marshaling the Church's resources to meet those needs. Deacons are also dedicated to eliminating
the injustices or inequities that cause such needs. But no matter what specific functions a deacon performs, they flow from his sacramental
identity. In other words, it is not only WHAT a deacon does,but WHO a deacon is,that is important.
May married men be ordained deacons?
Yes. The Second Vatican Council decreed that the diaconate, when it was
restored as a permanent order in the hierarchy, could be opened to "mature
married men, "later clarified to mean men over the age of 35. This is in
keeping with the ancient tradition of the Church, in which married men were
ordained into ministry. Also in keeping with ancient practice is the
expectation that while a married man may be ordained, an ordained man, if
his wife should die, may not marry again without special permission.
"Celibacy Affects Every Deacon: In one way or another, celibacy affects
every deacon, married or unmarried. Understanding the nature of celibacy
—its value and its practice—are essential to the married deacon. Not only
does this understanding strengthen and nurture his own commitment to marital
chastity, but it also helps to prepare him for the possibility of living
celibate chastity should his wife predecease him. This concern is
particularly unique within the diaconate. Tragically, some deacons who
were married at the time of ordination only begin to face the issues involved
with celibacy upon the death of their wives. As difficult as this process
is, all deacons need to appreciate the impact celibacy can have on their lives
and ministry."
-- National Directory for the Formation, Ministry, and Life of Permanent
Deacons in the United States, par. 72"
Is a Deacon ordained for the Parish or the Diocese?
Whenever a person is ordained, he is to serve the diocesan Church. Deacons
are no different in this regard: they are assigned by the bishop to ministries
for which the bishop perceives a great need, and for which the deacon may have
special gifts or talents. Most often, this will be within a parish setting,
just as most priests serve in a parish. Once assigned to the parish, the deacon
and any other clergy assigned to the parish minister under the immediate
supervision of the pastor. However, this assignment may be changed at the
request of the deacon or the initiative of the bishop.
Info courtesy of the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops